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Bharat Matrimony, an online matrimony service, faced a severe backlash on social media over its latest ad on Holi. As the festival of Holi coincided with the International Women’s Day on March 8, Bharat Matrimony released an ad which raised the issue of harassment and domestic abuse.
In the advertisement, a woman is seen washing the colours off her face after playing Holi. However, as she washes her face, the camera pans on the bruises on her face. As the woman stares resolutely into the camera, messages via text inserts on the video say, “Some colours don’t wash away easy. Harassment during Holi leads to immense trauma. Today, a third of women who’ve faced this trauma, have stopped playing Holi.”
Giving a message of inclusivity, the ad says, “This Women’s Day let’s choose to celebrate Holi in a way that is safe and inclusive for women.” Bharat Matrimony posted the ad on Holi with the caption, “This Women’s Day & Holi, let’s celebrate by creating safer and more inclusive spaces for women. It’s important to acknowledge the challenges that women face in public spaces and create a society that truly respects their well-being – today & forever.”
Watch the video below:
This Women’s Day & Holi, let’s celebrate by creating safer and more inclusive spaces for women. It’s important to acknowledge the challenges that women face in public spaces and create a society that truly respects their well-being – today & forever.#BharatMatrimony #BeChoosy pic.twitter.com/9bqIXZqaXu
— Bharatmatrimony.com (@bharatmatrimony) March 8, 2023
The social message that Bharat Matrimony attempted to convey through the ad didn’t go down well with a section of social media users.
“You guys are absolutely disgusting. How dare you link a social message with the Hindu festival of Holi. What has domestic abuse got to do with Holi?Have u lost your mind? You obviously don’t want Hindu customers. btw, u should focus on what happens on your awful site,” said a user.
You guys are absolutely disgusting. How dare you link a social message with the Hindu festival of Holi. What has domestic abuse got to do with Holi?Have u lost your mind? You obviously don’t want Hindu customers. btw, u should focus on what happens on your awful site.
— Priya Rana (@PriyaKumariRana) March 8, 2023
“I promise I will never recommend your portal to anyone ! I will show this post to them , and I am sure they will be convinced why not to use this website!” wrote another.
I promise I will never recommend your portal to anyone ! I will show this post to them , and I am sure they will be convinced why not to use this website !
— Sumit (@sumitsaurabh) March 8, 2023
It’s disappointing to see that you’re equating our festivals with harassment.
Let’s celebrate diversity and respect each other’s culture and faith. Let’s spread love, not hate. #StopHate #RespectCulture 🇮🇳
— Abhinav Khare (@iabhinavKhare) March 8, 2023
Just changing tweet caption is not enough, Video still have same content misrepresentation of holi. Choose woman awareness any other day. Better take this ad down or face consequences pic.twitter.com/fwul85Od16
— Lala (@FabulasGuy) March 8, 2023
Others also supported the ad. “This is indeed very brave of @bharatmatrimony. Festivals cannot and should not be a traumatic experience. Respect and Consent is vital and what better than the #WomensDay to send this message out to all those men who abuse, harm and disrespect women,” tweeted a user.
Earlier, online food delivery app Swiggy faced the ire of netizens for a billboard that urged people to not to play Holi with eggs. The food delivery platform took down the billboard after the backlash.
Hey @Swiggy, giving Gyan on Holi & trying to set a wrong perception by installing controversial billboards and posting reel, is not cool in any terms.
Apologize to Hindus & remove them. #HinduPhobicSwiggy pic.twitter.com/Zky64R8RvJ
— Aditya Tiwari (@Adityaatiwariii) March 8, 2023
In 2019, an ad by detergent brand Surf Excel, that showed friendship between a boy and a girl belonging to different communities caused an uproar. While some were critical of it for hurting religious sentiments, others praised the ad for promoting communal harmony.