People who always in a hurry, will never have enough time

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I have a friend who is always busy.

During university life, every time I ask him out for dinner, he always said, "Doing assignment, will go after I finished." or "deadline is near and needs to submit soon, maybe next time."

Every time we met, he always in a hurry, always feel like he has a lot of things to do. He often leaves in a hurry when we are having a reunion. In fact, we don't know what makes him so busy.

Some people say he is short-tempered, some people say he is efficient, but I always feel like he always lives in a hurry and trying to catch up with his life. Eat hurriedly, drive hurriedly, and go back home hurriedly.

When I with him, I will be involuntarily in a hurry, as if there is something waiting for me to do immediately. Always feel that time is not enough, no matter what I do is wasting time.

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Have you ever noticed that people who always in a hurry, never able catch up to time. They look like they are catching up to time, but still don't have enough time.

They seemed to be pressed by fast-forward button, and everything was in a hurry.

Some people say that this is a common problem in the society because of the social structure is unstable, many people are in the hurry because they afraid of being abandoned by the society.

Some people also said that this is the malpractice of modern society, technology makes our life faster, faster life become a habit, can’t slow down, once slowdown will be anxious.

The more the society grows, the more anxious we are, the more advanced the technology, the more impatient we are.

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When watching video on the internet, we kept fast forward and slid our fingers to the right. When we line up at the bank, always feel that the other queue is faster, and then started to fret.

We used to send text messages, we won’t get angry easy when didn’t get reply fast, and even wait with expectations. Now when we send Whatsapp/ Facebook message, if there’s no reply in a second, you will feel that they are not concerned about you.

When driving, we keep changing lane during traffic jam, to get a minute and a half seconds earlier. If unlucky got into accident, the time waiting for the claim are more time consuming than changing lane.

When we read a book, we could not wait to read the first page, the next minute will jump directly to the last page. How long does it take for you to sit down and read a book completely and quietly?

Many people claim that they are people with a sense of urgency, so they often set deadlines for everything.

For example, you should get married before 30 years old; have a successful career before 25 years old; have a child before 30 years old; etc.

But, when you completed a project in a hurry, will the quality be better than completing a project with all your heart? Because in a hurry, you tend to take shortcut and finish faster than others, will you get reward for complete the task first?

Because afraid of lagging behind people, you at a certain age, forcing yourself to do so-called, thing that has time boundary. But does it right? If you try to find your other half in a hurry to get married before the age of 30, will your marriage be happy?

The more anxious you are, the less you will get; If you always in a hurry, the less time you will have.

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Even I am often in a hurry.

I'm a typical hothead, the kind of person who can hardly slow down.

Even if no one urges me, I will be subconsciously anxious. Even in the less anxious situation, I will unconsciously drive faster.

Later I found out that this type of lifestyle was not happy at all. All I wanted is to save time, but in the end, I didn’t able to save time.

I used to think that I was high efficiency and then I knew it was called anxiety. I used to think that I had a lot more time than others, and then I realized that I missed out more beautiful scenery.

So I started to change. Even if my work life is very tense, but still can spare time to write articles, read books, cook, etc.

Then I might get this question: “There is so less time to do these things, every day after work already so tired, do not want to do anything. I feel like I don't have enough time every day. ”

At first I felt the same way, after I try,  it’s not like what I thought. I would suggest that think about what is really valuable and what is irrelevant to you.

There are many spells in life, one of them is that the more urgent you are, the harder you will get it.

Most of the time, there is a speed in your hurry, but there are no depth, no quality, no enthusiasm and no heart of the craftsmen.

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Try to slow down. You will find that nothing has been lost yet. You can’t save time nor chase it, time has its own rhythm, the thing that need to change, is your heart.

You can walk on, seize the clock. But never forget the meaning of life.

You spent your lifetime in a hurry, why not spend a little time to enjoy it.

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