"KINDNESS. It costs nothing, but means everything."

I had a conversation with a friend about the thoughtless and heartless actions and words of some doctors who lack bedside manners. When he was just 14, Bob's dad had cancer surgery. When the doctor stopped by post-surgery, he flipped his hand in the air and said "Three months." Then, he was on his way, leaving the patient and his family devastated with no doctor to discuss any further options. My friend was so angry, that even these 40 years later, I could see the rage in his face about being treated that way.

I understood his feelings, as I have had some similar experiences with doctors, as well as with college professors. I also remember my mother's frustration with my little brother's teachers, when he was seriously ill for a year and missed so much school. She was so concerned about him being left behind, and the teachers simply "blew her off." So much for her efforts to be the best parent possible.

Although teachers are not doctors, we must strive to practice our best "desk side manner," now more than ever. In this time of COVID 19 with so much uncertainty, we must put ourselves in the shoes of the parents, who are afraid for their children, whether they are physically in school or schooling at home. No parent wants his child to fall behind, and every parent wants what is best for his child. 

Teachers face huge challenges this coming school year, and I urge all to view from the parent's perspective, and to be as kind as possible. Although no one knows how long this pandemic will last or the repercussions of the disease, everyone has the ability to be a little kinder than is necessary.

"KINDNESS It costs nothing, but means everything."

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