Bridesman

Match the tie to the dresses

I would say ask him! If you really don't care, maybe he has an idea of what he'd like to do.

I actually really love when the bridesman has a suit that matches the dresses!

Like these!

of course, this depends on what he feels comfortable with and if he isn't down for a colourful suit then matching the groomsmen would be my secondary choice.

My brother was a bridesman in my wedding and he wore the exact same thing as the groomsmen. We also had a groomswoman and she wore the same thing as the bridesmaids.

View Quoted Comment I’ve never seen the bridesman match the bridesmaids before, but I’m looooving this! So chic!

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Right? I saw the pink one a while back and pink is my favourite so of course I fell in love. I think finding a suit that would match the dresses might be quite tricky, so I wonder if you'd be best getting the suit first and then matching the dresses after.

I have 2 bridesmen and they’re wearing the same suit as the groomsmen but have bowties and pocket squares that matches the sequins on the bridesmaids dresses

View Quoted Comment I agree with this! He's not a groomsman so he doesn't need to match them. Look for a suit that matches or at least complements the bridesmaids.

I think it depends on his style. I love some of those pictures above where the suit matches the dresses! But if he's not super outgoing with fashion then I would just have him match the groomsmen! Either way it'll all look great together! there is no wrong answer here, it's whatever you and him are comfortable with

As a woman with two brothers and no sisters, I am LOVING these pics. Makes me wish we had decided to have a bridal party. But I agree that I would ask him what he is most comfortable doing, and if he doesn't care, I love the suit matching the dresses!!

My husband was the best man in a wedding that had a man of honor. The MOH wore the same tux as the groomsmen, but the pocket square, bowtie, and vest were different colors.

If you can find a suit to match, it would be a great look, but if not, I would think a light gray would look good with dusty blue or pink, and then he could wear a tie and vest to match the ladies. The groomsmen could wear a darker color, like charcoal or navy.

I had a bridesman! what i did was he wore the same thing as the groomsmen except for the colored tie matched the bridesmaids

Thank you everyone for the ideas! I love the idea of him matching his tux to the dresses!!